Oh no, I totally get that and it's true. So many people don't think to question or analyse their choices. Some, like what I feel like my experience was at least early on, only stop to consider the way they think once they become friends with someone with a whole different outlook on topics that might've felt ingrained before.
Given what you say, and how much time has past, I'm not surprised you feel like it's not right to reach out to them after all this time. They may have changed in a way that you don't relate to any more, and sometimes it's better to keep those happy memories as memories and not taint them with how people have changed.
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Date: 2022-06-19 12:22 am (UTC)Given what you say, and how much time has past, I'm not surprised you feel like it's not right to reach out to them after all this time. They may have changed in a way that you don't relate to any more, and sometimes it's better to keep those happy memories as memories and not taint them with how people have changed.